Solo Tengo Ojos Para Ti

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Lyrics: “Seaweed Song” - Passion PitPhoto: Blankenbeckler. 

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Lyrics: “Seaweed Song” - Passion Pit
Photo: Blankenbeckler

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dad-isms:

The term soul mate does not mean “no work” in a relationship, it just means a lot less than normal.  
Soul mates can anticipate things before they are spoken.  
Soul mates are in tune with who you are and what you are…because they are.
Soul mates are pleasers, not takers.  
Your soul mate will energize you.
Your soul mate is the kind of person that when you ask, they do so joyfully.  
Your soul mate will say, “I can” and “I will” instead of, “I can’t” and “don’t want to”.
Your soul mate will relish the opportunity to go deeper with you.
Your soul mate can sit across the table from you, gaze into your eyes and say nothing for an extended period of time…and that simple act, is more than enough for both of you.  
Have you ever been validated with a look?
Have you ever held someone’s hand and felt their energy directly connect with yours?
These are things I hope you will look for.  
I want the bar to be high for you.  I want you to accept nothing less than that person, that without saying a word, says it all.

dad-isms:

The term soul mate does not mean “no work” in a relationship, it just means a lot less than normal.  

Soul mates can anticipate things before they are spoken.  

Soul mates are in tune with who you are and what you are…because they are.

Soul mates are pleasers, not takers.  

Your soul mate will energize you.

Your soul mate is the kind of person that when you ask, they do so joyfully.  

Your soul mate will say, “I can” and “I will” instead of, “I can’t” and “don’t want to”.

Your soul mate will relish the opportunity to go deeper with you.

Your soul mate can sit across the table from you, gaze into your eyes and say nothing for an extended period of time…and that simple act, is more than enough for both of you.  

Have you ever been validated with a look?

Have you ever held someone’s hand and felt their energy directly connect with yours?

These are things I hope you will look for.  

I want the bar to be high for you.  I want you to accept nothing less than that person, that without saying a word, says it all.

Thank God it’s Friday

24hrs until the love of my life comes home..

After work agenda.. Pick up car from 125th Go to hospital Be in traffic forever to get to pa Take a shower Hopefully get a cut Take another shower Pack for the weekend Pray the wife talks to me Then go to sleep

2 days exactly

I cant freaking wait…

:,(

Baby I miss you so much. The closer I get to your arrival the slower time goes and it’s driving me insane. Not being able to talk to you sucks even more. I hope everything is going well over there and the baby is fine.I’m so depressed and cranky without you. I woke up in tears this morning cuz I dreamt that you didn’t come back and i spent years looking for you. When we finally met the only words out of my mouth were Will you marry me?

Hurry home I can’t wait till you get back I love you and Zaidan.

~012810~

How am I supposed to do this for the next 3 days??? Why even carry my phone?? It’s going to make my days even longer looking at it all the time hoping for something

dad-isms:

When your wife is clearly needing to talk about something that is bothering her and you immediately start solving ___________ problem (without letting her vent), what you are saying (and don’t know it) is, “quit being upset, I can clearly see you don’t know how to fix (issue), but I do.  Now…save your breath, listen closely, and I’ll tell you exactly how to solve this in no time”.
I know in your heart you want to help her (and may not want to hear the blow by blow account of her feelings), but 99% of the time this approach will leave her feeling belittled to the point that she probably won’t want to share her thoughts or herself with you…and little by little you destroy the intimacy she needs (conversationally), and sadly, you destroy the intimacy you need (touch) in the process.  That’s called lose-lose.  
I know I have told you this and it is worth saying again: One of the most important needs in your wife’s life is to be heard.  To be understood.  To be loved even when she may not have it all figured out or together in the moment.  That is what creates the love that no man can come between and will give you a lifetime of happiness.
Remember, listening is her air

dad-isms:

When your wife is clearly needing to talk about something that is bothering her and you immediately start solving ___________ problem (without letting her vent), what you are saying (and don’t know it) is, “quit being upset, I can clearly see you don’t know how to fix (issue), but I do.  Now…save your breath, listen closely, and I’ll tell you exactly how to solve this in no time”.

I know in your heart you want to help her (and may not want to hear the blow by blow account of her feelings), but 99% of the time this approach will leave her feeling belittled to the point that she probably won’t want to share her thoughts or herself with you…and little by little you destroy the intimacy she needs (conversationally), and sadly, you destroy the intimacy you need (touch) in the process.  That’s called lose-lose.  

I know I have told you this and it is worth saying again: One of the most important needs in your wife’s life is to be heard.  To be understood.  To be loved even when she may not have it all figured out or together in the moment.  That is what creates the love that no man can come between and will give you a lifetime of happiness.

Remember, listening is her air

Do you know how it feels, 
to wake up with someone that you love? 
It feels so real 
my angel was sent from above 
I like to see her smile 
even when I look in her eyes 
I get butterflies[flies] 
I don’t wanna change 
I don’t wanna change 
I don’t wanna change her love 
I wanna change her last name, 
give her mine, onto her 
but feelings first baby girl you’re my world 
no other girl 
I just wanna make this last forever 

[Chorus] 
My queen she’s next to me, 
she’s next to me, 
I need 
her loving feel 
her loving feel 
just stay right by my side 
just you and I 
just you and I 
just you and I 
just you and I

I just vomited my brains out coming outside and smelling everyone smoking…what a bad time to have withdrawals

Hell is yourself and the only redemption is when a person puts himself aside to feel deeply for another person.
- Tennessee Williams (via ireadintothings) (via quote-book)

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This is going to be my soccer playing ninja..

You are all i need and I’ll never let go

dad-isms:

The only difference between a four hour argument and a ten minute one is when the apology gets inserted and who gives it

dad-isms:

The only difference between a four hour argument and a ten minute one is when the apology gets inserted and who gives it